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Friday 11 May 2012

Homework for Dummies

I am so completely over primary school homework projects. Last week, when Rory arrived home with his shiny, new 'Life in the Recent Past' folder, filled with blank pages waiting to be filled, a 'helpful' subject related topic chart, and a parents' comments page, all I wanted to do was put my head straight into the freezer. Because, let's not kid ourselves, this is NOT homework for the six year olds -this is torture for the parents, pure and simple. Its time consuming, extensive, and frankly a complete pain in the arse. Gimme a worksheet, reading and spellings ANY day of the week over this shit.
Inevitably, he's I'm given a few weeks to produce the goods, but throw in a Holy Communion, a mid term break, and just everyday chaotic busyness, and what ACTUALLY happens is I pull it out of drawer the night before, and think 'Oh crap! This is due tomorrow and we've done sweet FA...time to get this show on the road. The crucial next step is the sourcing of a varied selection of pens/pencils for the parent comment form, because nothing screams 'night before' more than the amateurish faux pas of using the same blue Biro throughout. Then, its straight into 'Olden Days 101' for  Rory, covering among other things, walking to school with bare feet in the snow,  conkers, Catchy Kissy and Snakes and Ladders.
 I should probably reassure you at this point that I'm not remotely anti homework - in fact, I'm the Queen of homeworks. I spend hours of every working day overseeing, assessing and correcting 4 of them...simultaneously... while  cooking, folding washing and sometimes balancing plates on my head. I even have a smorgasbord of EXTRA homeworks up my sleeve, for when I decree that someone has too little that day or I'm simply in a 'Tiger mother' kinda mood.
 Last night, I happened to be out with a few friends for a meal, and two of us got chatting about the project homework.
'How many pages have you got filled in?'
'All of them'. She seemed surprised at the question. ' You?'
'Two'. FFS .
'Oh? Well, we included pictures of old washboards and photos of old games, but the word on the street is that X's mum actually included a recipe from a hundred year old cook book.' FFS...there's always one isn't there.
 And what of Rory? Well, he punched in a contented half hour cutting and sticking in pictures of microwaves from the Argos catalogue, and our subsequent discussion on how cooking methods have changed over the years went something like this.
 'Rory, have you any idea how people used to cook?'
'Well, I know how Stone Age people did.They took two sticks and rubbed them together and...'
 Ten minutes later and I'm losing the will to live, so I cut in with, ' That's great, but no. That was thousands of years ago, I'm thinking of the recent past, when your Nana and Granda were wee.
 'Ehhh, no. I only know Stone Age.' Let's just say it was a long night.
 But, as a final push, before school this morning, and having actually lost sleep imagining Rory's project on public display as a warning to others, I was motivated to give him a short intensive presentation covering washboards, mangles and chamber pots, with accompanying pictures included and labelled, so I have to admit that this time I'm feeling quietly confident....

12 comments:

  1. Top TIps:
    Drink wine
    Toilet roll holders are great for EVERY homework.
    Drink wine
    Include a quote from a real granny.
    Drink wine
    Don't throw out any magazines ever cos the one you throw has THE image in it
    Drink wine
    By then who cares FFS!

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    1. Excellent advice Brenda. I will test it out hehehe

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  2. agh..dont even get me started!! OUr 5/6 year old came home with a project to design a house as they saw it. I set her up with some boxes, yoghurt pots and toilet rolls, some glue and paint and told her to build something like a house.

    ON the expo day at school there was, i kid you not, a small miniature lighthouse with a working lightbulb!!!

    FFS!!

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    1. Well if it's any consolation my daughter won a prize once - it was for mr men and you had to write your fave one and why you like him - I asked her Why do you love mr bump and she said because he falls down and makes me laugh.

      I wrote that and she won first place. I always think it was because it was CLEARLY the CHILD who said it!!!

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    2. There is quite simply no call for that Sarah- LOL!
      Brenda- love that- she won most deservedly!

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  3. To make u feel better, having twins means 2 homework projects for me! Subject 'Write bout How Someone Famous Uses Their Senses'. First task, choosing the famous person. Ally wanted to know if the Queen was famous or just rich! They have 6 weeks to complete it. Yawn!

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    1. Sounds horrible- I mean- who makes this crap up? Enjoy using all your senses with that one !

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  4. Emma, this is totally hilarious! You are a brilliant writer and this piece describes how I feel sometimes, being the mother of 3 primary school children. So, so funny Emma. I am gonna share this on facebook with my fellow mummies!

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    1. Thank you very much Deirdre- what a great compliment! :-))

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  5. Fantastic post! I was a Primary school teacher for ten years, and now with 3 of my own know the absolute torture that is known as 'the homework project' If it's any consolation, as a teacher, the longer they are, the more we roll our eyes (more to mark...)
    Congratulations on becoming a MADS Finalist! I'll look forward to meeting you in September (don't quite know how but made it in the Best Small Business Blog) :)

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    1. Im SO glad I'm not alone in this torture!
      And well done on being a finalist yourself- I'll have a good read of it over a cuppa. Can't wait to meet you in September- a cocktail will definitely be called for I think!

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  6. I can just hear Rory talking away about his version of The Stone Age and you giving him the uh huh, yes, of course..very good talk!! Hilarious read as always. xx

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